I was planning on posting this in the comments of the recent post on Lakeland, but after seeing a similar sentiment in Peter Kirk’s blog, I decided to open a new line of inquiry.

Several folks here have made comments about all of the innocents and baby Christians who were “hurt” by Todd Bentley’s fall.

I admit, it’s a reasonable assumption to make. I’m not knocking anyone for their concern.

But I got to thinking… where are these people? I’ve not heard from a one. Haven’t seen any on TV interviews or in the numerous blogs I read on Christian topics (many of whom reference this issue – some good, some bad, some heresy hunters).

Could it be that the argument is a big red herring?

  • http://itrustyou.wordpress.com Janet

    I went to Lakeland last May, watched the Outpouring on god tv almost every night until the last night in the tent, and for awhile on iWorshiphere.

    Saying it greatly enriched my life and walk with the Lord only begins to describe the changes that have taken place. I’m disappointed as always when leaders stumble, but in this case, it just means God gets all the glory. That is the way should to be anyway.

    The visions I had while I was there didn’t leave me. My passion for the Word has increased. My desire to seek authentic worship has not diminished. I now have a desire and boldness to witness that I never had before.

    My foot is still healed, too.

    Seems like the heresy hunters will eventually run out of places to bury the “good fruit.”

  • Donna

    Kathi, why would you think that these people would go public?

    Speaking as one that’s been burned by the church, when everything that you believed in suddenly seems to be a lie, and you’re left on your own to deal with it, your first need is to get as far away from the people that burned you, and the God that lied to you.

    No, you wouldn’t see these people that have been hurt, and you won’t.

    It’s the job of the church to go and find them, but this doesn’t happen. From memory, the church tends to turn a blind eye.

  • Jules

    Kathi – if Cat chooses to post here about what’s happening locally to her as a result of Lakeland, hold on to your hat. It’s absolutely vile – we were discussing it today. But that is if she chooses to.

  • http://www.realmsofglory.wordpress.com Kelly

    I have known personally tons of people, well maybe 20 personally that have gone to Lakeland. The newbies don’t seem to have been fazed by this. For them, they met God.

    What seems to be the problem of hurts among the ones I know is people who have NOT been there who say it was not of God, none of it. And what it does is make them question their discernment. Once that is worked through they stand on the Rock of that which is much firmer than what they stood on before.

    I have had people write on my blog that they have been hurt, but it was ones who have not been there.

    There was one lady that worked the revival and was extremely bitter. That one needs to go to God with the bitterness. It seems that there is probably a deep seated problem that God is dealing with there.

    No, this was not all fun and games, there was war. And casualties, nothing that God can’t handle.

    Donna, how can the church go after the hurt ones if they don’t know that they are hurt? Our church has gone through the fire with offense and hurts. People left and would not talk with you or nothing. The enemy blinded them. Once things were talked through everything smoothed out. The rest of them, God bless them, could not handle it and left. That is between them and God.

    When we graduate to glory, all that is going to be there is God, us and no one else. We are responsible for our own actions and our own thoughts and sins.

    People can’t lump the church into one big pile any more. Things are changing rapidly. You just have to trust that God will meet with them.

    By the way I have been in a spot where I seemingly lost my faith, um, just this year I hung it all up. From experience, if you do not close off God completely, He comes and gets you.

    And if there were truly vile things happening to people, which there probably are, it is not widespread. Those people need to be heard and ministered to. There is spiritual abuse all around but there also are ones who take everything done and said through the filter of bitterness and hurt. People cannot be everything to everyone. Only God can.

  • http://www.qaya.org/blog/ Peter Kirk

    Kathi, thanks for this.

    Actually I can give an example of one person who was in some way hurt by Lakeland, Prof. William Dembski whose story is told in summary here and more fully here. My assessment is that Dembski was hurt because he put his faith in a man and in the special power of his touch rather than in God who was healing throughout the meeting – see my comment on the first story.

    But the implication of many now criticising Lakeland is that some people have received lasting physical and spiritual hurt. Going to a meeting in hope of healing and not receiving it is of course hurtful, but people get over it. Is this all the critics are trying to say? If so they are overstating their point. Or are they saying that anyone was harmed in a significant and lasting physical way? I have still seen no specifics, just generalities.

  • Anita

    Hurt?

    People are hurt everywhere Lakeland or not.

  • http://iamhealed.net Kathi

    #Peter, therein lies the second part of my question. Was Prof. Dembski hurt by Lakeland/TB? Or was he hurt by his own failure to put God and man in their rightful places?

    #Anita – true. People need Jesus. He’s the only answer.

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    Kathi, people sometimes do make the mistake of putting man infront of God and believe man does the healing. Only God does that

  • http://iamhealed.net Kathi

    Rev, I agree.

    But is such a one hurt by TB&L? Or hurt by their own sin (in elevating people above God)?

    It can be argued that it’s only human to do so… and I suppose that it is a human tendency. But should God let that stand? Or bring it down so that a person can rebuild on the solid Rock instead of the sinking sand where they’d built before?

  • http://www.realmsofglory.wordpress.com Kelly

    But is such a one hurt by TB&L? Or hurt by their own sin (in elevating people above God)?

    Bingo!

    I had a lot to gain or a lot to lose by going to Lakeland for healing. But I knew something was happening down there that was a little more than normal, I suspected exageration and hype.

    Personally I directed and hashed this out with the Lord. I had to deal with my feelings and motives before going down there and it was an awful week.

    The result is, I didn’t get what I wanted, but I got what I needed and so much more.

    I could have been very angry and hurt in Lakeland if I had not dealt with this before I went down. It was a choice I made.

    It was not their fault that God was not moving spectacularly in healing when we were there. And how can I put my faith in Todd when he wasn’t even around?

    This is on God’s head. Or perhaps on your head. It may sound harsh but I can say it since I “went there”. This problem is really a personal problem within yourself if you are hurt. You can’t blame what you did or didn’t get in Lakeland on the people ministering there.

    The facts are you will recieve nothing if you do not continue to be tender hearted towards the Lord.

    I would replace the word “hurt” with crabby because I didn’t get what I wanted and I need to blame someone.

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    Kelly the question I have for you is this. If God is the same yesterday, today and forever more, then to receive something from God one doesn’t have to leave their area to get it. The same God that showed in Lakeland is the same God I know that shows up everytime we have service. Revivals are good for those who need to be revived. I want the same from God all the time.

  • alycia

    As far as those that were/are “hurt”, to me this is a two-sided thing…the one side is that it is a human tendency to elevate a man or woman of God that has been used by Him mightily..But God will allow their “clay feet” to be seen to remind all of us that it isn’t about a person’s gifting, anointing, charisma, etc. It’s all about giving God glory for His presence and his moving on the earth, He just happens to use fallible human beings to work thru.
    The other side to this is that the ones God is using have to be careful to not get lifted up in pride and arrogance themselves, or allow others to place them on pedestals–if God sees that happening, He is well able to get such a one off the pedestal.

  • http://www.realmsofglory.wordpress.com Kelly

    I heard from the Lord to go to Lakeland Rev Merry. That is why I went.

  • http://www.realmsofglory.wordpress.com Kelly

    Rev Merry, did you go?

  • Donna

    I’m not sure why I’m not getting this – is everyone here saying that Christians, or even those that are just spiritually searching, should not expect a little more in the behavior and lives of other Christians? Even in the life of a pastor or preacher? This way they won’t feel let down or disappointed when these people fall?

    Funny, I always thought Christians were to be the salt of the earth. I always thought that we were to know them by their fruits. But from what I’m getting here, the lost should not expect any difference in the saved, and the Christians should not expect any difference from their own, not even the pastor that teaches them. To expect a difference sets up for disappointment.

    When I say put on a pedestal, I’m not necessarily saying ‘idolizing’, though some may take it that far, but more I’m saying to have great respect in, trust in, or even faith in – simply knowing that you can look up to your pastor, and or the preacher that draws a crowd of thousands every night.

    But it seems you’re all saying that a person should not be hurt by a Christian’s behavior, even when he’s in a position such as TB. If one does get hurt, then he must have had man elevated above God. I don’t get it?!

    A person needs to be able to believe in their faith completely. If this sort of thing rarely happened then maybe it would be another story. But it happens quite often. Don’t any of you think that when these big preachers fall people DO get hurt? People DO lose faith? And not because they idolized, but simply they felt safe to believe in what a preacher was telling them. Safe because they believed that God had led them there to begin with? And don’t any of you feel that the way the world views things like this hurts the cause of Christ?

    With what your all saying it seems again like your excusing what has happened.

    But, I’m going to end it here. For one, I know none of you agree with me. And for another, it seems I’m going around in circles trying to explain what I mean, and probably not doing a good job of it.

  • alycia

    Donna, I’ve been in the position of getting “hurt” by those in church leadership, and I don’t know about anyone else’s experiences, but I came away from those times of being hurt a better Christian…for one, those times taught me valuable lessons of #1–not putting anyone on a pedestal, #2–not always believing the hype surrounding either the minister or ministry,and #3–the importance of getting filled and refreshed and ministered to on my own, and not 100% relying on the pastor, evangelist, teacher, etc.

    I don’t think anyone here is excusing what happened to TB, and I’ve wondered too about some of those who either attended the meetings or watched them faithfully on God TV–those who were desperately seeking a touch from God, and perhaps didn’t receive what they wanted…my hope and prayer is that those people look beyond Lakeland and keep seeking, asking, knocking–and not let this be a stumbling block that prevents them from receiving what God wants them to have.

  • Rev Merry

    Donna, for me as a Pastor, I know people put me to a higher standard and I know that I have one task and that is to be Christ like. To uphold the Gospel and to be yes held accountable for what I do or say and how I act. I believe and I strive to do it very much is the same in the pulpit as out of it. I am God’s representative and there is no excuse to act anyother way. We don’t receive from man, but receive from God. Man is a servant of the most high God and no Pastor is above reproach, nor should be put on a pedistal. We are accountable to God for what we say and what we do. For instance I many years ago told a young man to get of drugs and turn to Jesus and standing there with a Bud in my hand. He said why should I look at you. Less than a week later he was hit and killed by a train. His blood was on my hands and never picked up alchol after that. I take what I do very seriously. I just wish all did

  • http://Garnets2@yahoo.com Donna

    Thank you Rev, that was pretty much what I was trying to say.

    Yes, people are affected when the church fails, when the church falls. One does not need to have man elevated above God to be hurt. I think Christians need to be more aware of what their actions can do to others.

    Alycia, I’m glad that you’ve been made stronger as a result of being hurt by the church. But not everyone has experienced the same degree of hurt. Nor does everyone handle things exactly the same.

  • http://iamhealed.net Kathi

    I heard from the Lord to go to Lakeland Rev Merry. That is why I went.

    There it is!!

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    Kathi glad you heard from the Lord and not man to go. My point is alot of people didn’t hear from the Lord to go they just went. that is where the mistake comes in

  • alycia

    Donna, with due respect, and I’m NOT saying this is your attitude, but I think sometimes people LOOK FOR excuses to be “put out” with the church..you said,
    “Alycia, I’m glad that you’ve been made stronger as a result of being hurt by the church. But not everyone has experienced the same degree of hurt. Nor does everyone handle things exactly the same.”
    (I’m not familiar with the quote function on his board, sorry)I realize that, Donna…but everyone gets hurt at one point or another…and everyone has hurt someone else at one point or another…it’s called “being human”. That fact *should not* affect one’s personal relationship with God, nor *should* it affect one’s pursuit of the presence of God…I wish all pastors/preachers had the attitude that Rev. Merry here has, of living above reproach, but sadly many don’t. But just because *some* choose not to, or for some reason are too weak to, does that give the rest of us an excuse to not follow after God for ourselves? Like I said before, I’m NOT excusing TB in any way, and neither is anyone else here…but somewhere down the line, we have to stop making excuses and pointing fingers at others’ mistakes and holding THEM accountable for OUR walk with God.

  • Donna

    Alycia, in respect to Kathi and her blog I won’t elaborate much, as I could really get into some things. But I never intended to bring it here, so I won’t.

    All I’m going to say to you is that you cannot presume to know why a person is hurt or why their experience affected their relationship with God. And until you do know, or have the same experience in your own life, you cannot say how you would deal with it yourself.

    And just a word of advice, never be so confident in your Christianity as to say that nothing could ever come between you and God, because you just might be put to the test.

  • http://www.realmsofglory.wordpress.com Kelly

    Donna I have been tried fried and purified and anyone that knows me won’t deny that.

    Ultimately it is GOD you have to go to and ask for forgiveness for all over the place when you decide to repent for your sins.

    I could justify all I wanted to but God is holy.

    I just happened to come out on top.

    I believe that is what we all are tryng to say.

    It applies to all believers no matter what happens to them in life and we do have compassion on them, at least I certainly do.

    I travailed each day I watched TB. Actually I should rephrase that, I never went on to watch TB I went on to experience God. But at that I knew there were a large amount of needy people that went through a lot to get there that walked away without healing or what they were going for.

    I was one of them.

    But God restored our relationship to each other there. And that is eternal.

    Blessings on you.

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    Kelly alot of people I have heard said they didn’t get what they went to Lakeland for. Remember these words you wrote Quote ” But God restored our relatonship to each other there. and that is eternal” Maybe that is what God wanted you to have and nothing more right now

  • alycia

    Donna, I won’t go into my experiences here either, but I CAN say I’ve been there, done that, got the T-shirt and bumper sticker…and thru it all, I can HONESTLY say I have a stronger relationship with God now than I have ever had…because I HAD to go thru some things, the veil HAD to be lifted off my eyes, and I HAD to learn to seek God for myself and not backslide just because Big Name Evangelist/Pastor/Apostle so and so got weak in an area or God exposed their failings…

    A word of advice to you too, Donna…don’t give another human being more power over your life than they deserve to have…that spot ought to be reserved for God and Him alone. Bless you.

  • Jules

    Alycia – my experience was almost identical to Donna’s (we’ve discussed it at length in emails over the years). I won’t go into details either, but it wasn’t just a couple of individuals teaching dodgy stuff. It was endemic and massive in Pentecostal Christianity. I remain a Pentecostal (for want of a better description), but I am exceedingly wary and test EVERYTHING. There is an enormous problem in Pentecostal Christianity and few people want to talk about it or rectify it. TB&L is just one symptom of the infection.

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    Jules, testing things is a good thing as that I do myself. I want to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that its from God

  • http://Garnets2@yahoo.com Donna

    >>and thru it all, I can HONESTLY say I have a stronger relationship with God now than I have ever had…

    Very happy for you, Alycia.

  • Donna

    Posted last night – it sat waiting to be ‘okayed’, and then disappeared.

    It was short, and it truly doesn’t matter that it didn’t show, but just wondered why it was denied?

  • http://iamhealed.net Kathi

    It wasn’t, Donna (if the comment is the one directly above your question)

    It got caught in the moderation queue instead of going straight through. I’m guessing that the system recognizes your IP address that you posted under this morning – but the other one it doesn’t.

    Why, I don’t know, because the last time you posted under that IP, it got caught in moderation too. Once I approved it, you should have been good to go under both.

    BTW, both IP addresses seem to be “home” – even on DSL they do change from time to time (depending on the host, it can be “often” or “rarely”).

    I love WordPress but sometimes… bah. Sorry about that!!

    If the comment above ISN’T the one you’re talking about, let me know because that means we’ve got a problem!

  • alycia

    Jules–I understand what you’re saying, and I agree, we ARE to test everything…I’m on a forum that is WOF-friendly (Kathi knows this too), and I cannot for the life of me understand how and why certain things are accepted and tolerated as Biblically correct…I refuse to NOT test everything. And I agree, there are serious problems in the Pentecostal/charismatic sector of the Church.

  • Rev Frederick G Merry

    alycia what are the serious problems that you have encountered

  • Donna

    Well now, how did that happen? When I posted this AM, the one from last night wasn’t there! I swear! ;)

    You’re right, both posts were on different computers – the one last night being from my laptop. Though I have posted from the laptop before with no problems.

    Okay, thanks Kathi.

  • alycia

    Rev. Merry–the most serious I’ve encountered has been false doctrine/extrabiblical stuff being preached. And when you question anything, you’re labeled as a troublemaker, non-submissive, etc.I have been made an example of from the pulpit, spied on, have had breaches of confidentiality…some other issues I’ve had were ones of emotional manipulation, boundary violations…basically my naivete’ was exploited by certain “pulpit pimps”. That’s why I can say that I have learned and have grown a lot within the past several years of being in and around “church”…and although the Pente/charismatic ones have serious problems, the non-charismatic ones have issues too.
    If anyone here got the personal letter from Rory and Wendy Alec concerning TB/L, really read it over…they speak about growing in maturity and not ever idolizing a man or woman of God. I think that is a large part of our growth…God is going to hold us responsible for our growth, and not excuse us for someone else causing us to stumble.

  • Rev Merry

    now alycia, we must remember we are held accountable. No one can make me fall, the final decision is mine and mine alone. If I allow circumstances to affect me, than I need to seek God more and more. I can’t be offended nor can I offend anyone. What I mean here is, I make the ulitmate choice of who or what I am. no one does that for me. I can offend myself by letting things get to me. But if I keep my eyes on Christ, I will do well. I don’t care if people call me Fred, Pastor, just as long as not called late for a meal. To me its not about a title, its about being as Christ, a servant

  • alycia

    I agree Rev.

  • Jules

    The last email I got from Rory and Alec was wittering on about covens and ‘warlocks’ working rituals against the revival, like a bad Frank Peretti novel – those old Eighties myths just keep getting recycled. The only occult things going on were IN the ‘revival,’ with the false teachings, fake baptisms, violent ‘healing’ attacks, shamanic trances, Patricia King’s demonic possessions etc.

    Over the past 21 years, during my time as a witch and an ex-witch, it is abundantly clear to me that Pagans don’t need to work against Christians, and it wouldn’t even occur to the vast vast majority to do so. They’re too busy doing their own thing and living their lives, raising their families, paying their bills. We Christians are more than capable of foulling things up spectacularly all on our own. All they have to do is sit back and watch, and pity us for the fools in our camp. They may have people like Kevin Carlyon and Z Budapest and Laurie Cabot, but we have any number of ridiculous publicity whores desperate for money and press coverage. How on earth did we get from the simplicity of genuine Christianity in God’s Word to the apostasy we see today in the ‘new apostolic reformation’ and Joel’s Army?

    I had hoped Wendy would repent of being a false prophet (Jesus never did turn up on stage on 8th June with Bentley as prophesied, just as He didn’t show up in 2000 as Benny Hinn prophesied – well, duh).

    I had hoped the Alecs would repent of publically broadcasting all the false teaching and behaviour they promote. But no – GodTV is snuggled in bed with WOF and other Satanic deceptions for the glorification of their bank accounts, so it’ll continue globally as an End Times deception for those who do not test. GodTV is used greatly by the enemy to draw people into sin and deception and a fake Christianity. Even though Jesus warned us very specifically that it would come, there are still those in modern Christianity who refuse to believe Him and fall for the latest ‘happenings.’ It’s tragic, but when people leave the Word behind and follow their own impulses and call it ‘Jesus,’ it’s also inevitable.

  • http://iamhealed.net Kathi

    Donna – it showed up “in order” when I approved it… so it wasn’t there. And then it was.

    Didn’t realize you have two computers – that explains it! :)

  • http://www.qaya.org/blog/ Peter Kirk

    Jules, I also received Rory and Wendy Alec’s last e-mail, but my take on it was rather different.

  • Rev Merry

    Peter what was your take.

  • Rev Merry

    God TV promoted it. It wasn’t going long enough for the pressure built up on TB. What I see as the problem was not God TV but as much as the fact that TB was still being counseled for the first affair. He knew better and should never had been at Lakeland

  • http://www.qaya.org/blog/ Peter Kirk

    Rev Merry, I hope you followed the link. I don’t know the details about the counselling after Todd’s previous issue (and I don’t trust all the rumours I hear) but I understand that his closest advisers had cleared him to return to ministry. Possibly they share some of the blame for doing so prematurely. But it is all too easy for us to judge people like them after the event. Instead we should accept that they all made a good decision based on what they knew at the time, but that perhaps in retrospect it was not the best decision.

   

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