If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know that we’ve been attending a wonderful church while in the midst of following God’s call to plant a church ourselves.

Acts Temple is a wonderful church. Pastor Jury Price and Co-Pastor Mike Dixon and all the leaders and people are just *awesome*.  If someone was to come to Flowing River Fellowship (the church we’re planting) and they felt like they weren’t a good fit here, I wouldn’t hesitate to send them to Acts Temple. If we weren’t called to ministry / called for now, Acts would definitely be our home church.

 But.

For a while now, we’ve been hearing from God that it’s time to start Sunday worship at Flowing River Fellowship. We’ve been meeting on Tuesday nights, and it’s been good. If we were to continue on Tuesdays, it would likely still be good. But it wouldn’t be God’s best for this church, and that’s what we want!

We’re sensing something with Acts Temple. A disconnect. We’ve felt this feeling before when it was time to move on. It’s always been immediately preceded by hearing from God about it.

See, we thought we could be part of one congregation while growing another. We’d started to get comfortable there, to go with the flow of things, to step into roles. It felt good and right. But it wasn’t what God really wanted for us. Oh, I do believe that He brought us there… but I think we overstayed His welcome. We should’ve gone when we started FRF, regardless of whether we met on Tuesdays, Sundays, or whenever.

The point isn’t that we’ll be busy in one place on Sunday so we can’t be at another… the point is that we can’t have our time and efforts divided between two congregations. If we’re going to be a part of a congregation, we need to focus on the needs of that congregation. Not another. I’m not saying that two churches (or ten) can’t be a help to one another, work on joint projects, learn from one another, and so on. I AM saying that each church needs to focus on its own efforts (without being inwardly focused!!) – whether as an individual congregation, or as a cooperative effort.

For example – Acts Temple put on a wonderful hot dog supper a ways back. It was a great thing and really ministered to some of Level Cross’s low-income residents. At least one family hadn’t had anything at all to eat recently! Yet when we went door to door, Ken and I felt very conflicted. Here we are planting a church, and inviting people to come to another church that we’re a part of. It’s a bit illogical. Not because FRF and AT are in any sort of competition… we should each be building the community of our own congregations.

I could draw a picture of what I’m trying to say, and maybe I will, because I don’t feel like I’ve expressed it well.

So – next Sunday morning we’ll be having services here. Hopefully our people will be able to handle the rapid transition.  This isn’t how we like to make changes – but obedience is what counts here.

Today we’re hanging out. We’ll pray, work some on the logistics, keep plugging away at the Articles of Incorporation, and get some housework done. It’s been a busy week, ministry wise, and the housework seems to always come last.

 

I need to rant for a moment on behalf of people that Jesus loves … but much of the church hates. I’ve just heard from yet another ex-pagan who has gone from church to church in her city, and at nearly every one she is despised and rejected. I’ve heard from others (and seen it!) who are poor by the world’s standards. They don’t have nice clothes and can’t put a lot of money in the plate. They’re not welcome at certain churches either.

What is the church? A country club, where only the elite can hobnob?

Some people have a terrible, rude awakening coming to them… see Matthew 25.

 

I feel like I’ve returned to the land of the living!!

I’ve been sick for -it seems like forever- first stomach, then flu.  But it’s been an interesting week. Tuesday I hadn’t been feeling TOO bad. Sick, yes, but not like warmed over food from last Thanksgiving! I had to run to the post office and grocery store. Between here and Randleman I started to cough, and I proceeded to cough, shiver, shake, sweat, and cry through the next hour until I got home. Went to bed and huddled there miserable.

So a friend called Tuesday night. She’s really been going through some unpleasant things and I wanted to minister to her. Between coughs I did. Woke up Wed morning and promptly went back to bed. I decided I just wasn’t getting up, period.

Well. God had other plans. :)

My friend called back. We talked on the phone a good long while and I really wanted to pray with her. I don’t like to pray over the phone about things which are highly emotional. So I asked her if she was willing to risk the flu and come over. She was willing. TECHNICALLY we shouldn’t be contagious any more (5 days from 1st symptoms) but given that we’ve still got symptoms we want to be sure.

But get this — over the hour or so we talked on the phone, and the rest of the afternoon and into last night, I barely coughed at all and I went from feeling so tired I didn’t want to remain standing, to having a LOT of strength. God did it :)

We ended up praying for a good while and then we went to a church service at a place which has special ministry of the sort my friend needed.  I ended up being ministered too. Awesome stuff that God was doing last night!!

Then I made Ken take me out for a chocolate milkshake :D

 

As a pastor and as a web designer, I check out lots of church websites. I do this for a couple of reasons – design considerations, what works and what doesn’t, how do different church’s sites flow (or not flow); I also check them out to get ideas for our own church. I agree with Chris Elrod that we shouldn’t be copying other churches… what is good and works well in one situation may totally flop in our situation. That’s perhaps even more true in our house church. Some things just plain require infrastructure. Some things which work well with a group of 100 surely won’t with just ten. (And some things that work with just ten would never fly with a larger group, too!)

Yet reading what others are doing is fun and often inspiring. Sure, we can glean ideas… but reading about exciting things tends to get us excited, too. Sites open us to possibilities.

I make it a practice to read the blogs and church websites of folks I disagree with. I routinely read reformed, complementarian, cessationist, liberal, and even some decidedly non-Christian views, in addition to reading the sites of folks who think pretty much like I do. This practice stretches me and gives me glimpses into the great diversity that exists in the church and in the greater world.

Today I ran across a Presbyterian church in South Carolina – one of many churches in Greenville SC area. Now, if I had to pick a polar opposite for myself, it might be a Presby. :) They tend to be far more liberal than I’m comfortable with, and they tend to do things that I’m just not sure about (like centering prayer). Yet I know many Presbyterians who adore Jesus – they’re my brothers and sisters in Christ.

Looking through their site (which has a nice design), several of their programs and efforts leap out at me. One is called Stephen Ministry… “a Christ-centered ministry of presence by lay persons in the congregation. The confidential, one-to-one care is available to all in our church home and in the community who are experiencing all of life’s joys and challenges.”

I like it.

They’ve also got a theology reading group, a commitment to being eco-friendly, and their members are involved in a staggering number of outreach opportunities.
One thing I found interesting was their spiritual gifts list. Obviously, we’ve drawn differing conclusions regarding this subject. Their list of spiritual gifts focuses on the natural outworking of gifts (such as leadership and mercy) rather than on the supernatural/sign gifts (such as prophecy and healings). However, their list offers concrete ways for people to participate, and a person who can help them plug into ministry. Often, people fail to step up and minister because they’re not sure in what area they’re able to serve, and once they figure that out, they’re not sure how to get involved. This church seems to make it easy.

I enjoy getting ideas like this. Sites like Westminster Pres. has help me to see potentials, areas for teaching, ways to minister that I might not have seen if I only gleaned ideas from other Pentecostals (we have this awful tendency to assume that everyone in a Pentecostal church has received the Baptism in the Holy Spirit, spoken in tongues, and knows how to open up and let the Holy Spirit work through us. Um… in a word…no. I’d say the vast majority in today’s (American) Pentecostal churches either have never received, or spoke in tongues once 20 years ago and therefore “got theirs”, or they only operate in spiritual gifts within the four walls of the church when everyone’s really excited. (uh-oh, I might’ve gotten myself started…)

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I’ve only had a few things to tidy up today, since the house was cleaned up for church last night. Made the bed, did a load of laundry, and I’m washing a few dishes. Other than that there’s not a lot to do.

We had a nice time last night. We were few in number – there’s a lot of people who are sick – but it was good. I need to sort out sermon prep better… somehow I feel compelled to say everything I’ve got written down. I’ve thought about going note-less, but I’m just not sure what would happen ::makes face::

One thing we’re praying for is that God will make a way for us to either sell this house and buy another, or for us to be able to refurbish this house and add on to it. We like where we live, like having a little land, and love having some of the best neighbors anyone could ask for. The problem is that our house isn’t conducive to having gatherings in. Not sure who designed the layout, or why they set things up this way. I’ll just say that they don’t think, move, or live the way we do. I’d love to tear out a few walls…

Kay Sharpe


I'm a laid-down lover of Jesus Christ. I write about my King and His Kingdom, the Bible, revival, healing, prophecy, faith, and more... plus I throw in recipes, tips, news and politics items, reviews, and all sorts of random things just for fun. Until recently, I was known as "Kathi"... but my name is now Kay. It's a good, God thing... :) The opinions expressed in this blog are mine and mine only - not necessarily shared by my husband, our church, my employers, or anyone else.

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